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#Don't-Ever-Play-Yourself

" Don't ever play yourself " - DJ Khaled




Yo, what's up my brothers, I come to y'all with something very important. This post will probably be like the 3rd or 4th Brown Brother exclusive from the upcoming book. I'm not sure if this is number three or four, however, I will do probably a couple more just because these lessons feel good.




Anyway, I come to talk about never playing yourself. As a young brother, you can never be a fool. Never playing yourself is basically never acting foolish, making dumb decisions, and being foolish.




See, there will always be chance and opportunities for "Us" to act a fool (just watch Maury or Bill Cunningham Show, however there will be few times were we are intentionally called to be great. Further, when you play yourself, the chances to advance and achieve become much more slimmer than before. 




In addition, this goes for many other things. In relationship, you can't never play yourself. In jobs or school, you can never play yourself. Every action or lack there of, has a reaction.




You say you want good grades, but you play yourself by not studying. You say you want a decent girlfriend, not the self-absorbed and untrustworthy. However, when you get someone decent you cheat. Or as Jamie Foxx so intelligently put it, "Fall for the wrong type." 




See, your playing yourself. You want to be taken seriously, however you let anyone say or do anything to you. See, one thing I learned is this; if you let society treat you like a fool or you play yourself: You will always be a fool or at least seen as one.


And eventually, the opportunities to be a king and the leader of your own life vanishes.




Therefore, don't ever play yourself my brother, the results are tragic.




From Hollywood to the Hell of the Inner City, playing yourself only leads to failure.



In conclusion, my brother know yourself and your worth. Know that you are a King, and never let anyone (including yourself) play YOU!!!!




Because the decisions and choices you make now, will impact your life forever.




(Watch these videos)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4veGtaj4pQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lr7CKWxqhtw



Sincerely,




The Brown Brother



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